SO much ≠ TOO much







Compare the cases...

She talks so much.

She talks too much.

She talks a lot.

She talks very much.



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She talks so much.  = She talks a lot. 
observations WITHOUT JUDGEMENT

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She talks TOO much.  =  she should talk less
observation WITH JUDGEMENT 

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She talks very much is not a full sentence an AmE speaker is likely to say – don't know about other areas. The only time we're likely to say these words in that order is when followed by a mention of some topic, for example:
She talks very much about saving the children in Uganda.

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1. Very much -  often used for negatives...
a. I don´t like it very much.
b.'Did you like it?' "Very much".


2. So much -  simple observation
a. We wasted so much water.
b. She helps him so much.


3. Too much -  observation expressing excess (with judgement)
a. You drank too much.(Você bebeu demais.)
b. She eats too much meat.(Ela come carne demais.)


4. Plenty -  enough, or, at least the quantity we need.
a. There's no need to hurry.You have plenty of time.
b. But there are plenty of animals and birds.

6. A lot -  observation expressing excess (without judgement)
a. You talk a lot. (You talk so much.)
b. I walked a lot. (I walked so much.)


7. A lot of -  before nouns.
a. We have a lot of money.(Nós temos muito dinheiro.)
b. He has a lot of friends.(Ele tem muitos amigos.)


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