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Showing posts with label V/ Wishes. Show all posts

TOP 5 Regrets of the dying...

according to The Guardian...

1. I wish I'd had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me.
"This was the most common regret of all. When people realise that their life is almost over and look back clearly on it, it is easy to see how many dreams have gone unfulfilled. Most people had not honoured even a half of their dreams and had to die knowing that it was due to choices they had made, or not made. Health brings a freedom very few realise, until they no longer have it."

2. I wish I hadn't worked so hard.

3. I wish I'd had the courage to express my feelings.

4. I wish I had stayed in touch with my friends.

5. I wish that I had let myself be happier.

What's your greatest regret so far, and what will you set out to achieve or change before you die?
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now, according to ADDICTED TO SUCCESS,
it should be a TOP 10 LIST...



The Top 10 Regrets in Life By Those About to Die


1. “Never pursuing dreams and aspirations”

The number one regret we found that people have on their death beds is that they were never brave enough to pursue their dreams, but settled for what others expected of them. When they look back at their lives, they tend to recall their unreached goals and aspirations. They are often haunted by decisions that resulted in the lives they ended up with.
While you still have a lot of years to live, be sure to make some time for reaching your dreams. Start working toward your goals now; don’t keep putting things off until it’s too late.

2. “I worked too much and never made time for my family”

3. “I should have made more time for my friends”

4. “I should have said ‘I Love You’ a lot more” 

5. “I should have spoken my mind instead of holding back and resenting things” 

6. “I should have been the bigger person and resolved my conflicts”

7. “I wish I had children”

8. “I should have saved more money for my retirement”

9. “Not having the courage to live truthfully”

10. “Happiness is always a choice, I wish I knew that earlier”


I wish...

   case 1      NOT POSSIBLE TO HAPPEN  


My car is old.
I wish
it was new.

IN MY DREAMS, my car is new!



   case 2      POSSIBLE TO HAPPEN  

 


I wish my car was new.  
I wish somebody would give me a new car.

IN MY DREAMS, SOMEBODY WILL GIVE ME A NEW CAR.





case 3      POLITE WAY OF ASKING  



I wish you
would stop smoking.

...less strong than "Would you stop smoking?"







  caseS      TO COMPARE  



I wish it would stop raining every Saturday morning. I have English class.
= I wish it were disposed to stop raining every...
= I wish it were going to stop raining every...




"I wish I were rich"
but
"I wish I would win the lottery".

"I wish it didn't rain (always)"
but "I wish it would stop raining (now)".
Also "I wish it would rain less", because this implies a change.

"I wish I had a fast car"
but
"I wish someone would give me a fast car".


I wish it WAS easy.                    
[ in the world of my dreams, it IS easy  ]


I wish
it DIDN'T GET difficult. 
[ in the world of my dreams, it DOESN'T GET difficult  ]

I wish I STARTED understanding. 
[ in the world of my dreams, it START understanding  ]

I wish it WOULD GET clearer.  (in a scheduled time point)
[ in the world of my dreams, it WILL get clearer  ]












I wish
you did this activity here below!I also wish you sent me your answers...



Please, fill the gaps and send me the sentences.


I wish I _________ curly hair!
I wish you _________ annoying me.
I wish she ___WILL/WOULD___ put her clothes away tidily.
I wish Beth _________ classical music.
I wish I _________ go home early.
Dave wishes he _________ more money.
I wish I __________________ those things last night.
I wish I ____________ the red bag instead of this blue one.

check your answers here and here if you prefer...structures after wishes

Advanced Grammar: Inversions

Some stuff about inversions in English that you might find useful.

Everything here below was taken from fullspate.net

Inversions in English

What is an inversion? In general, an "inversion" is a changed order of things. If X usually comes before Y, the inverted order will be Y first, then X. When looking at the grammar of the English language we see inversions for instance in the normal order of the subject and the verb in a sentence. To explain what an inversion is in English, first think of a simple sentence like: "Graffiti is ugly." In sentences like this the subject (graffiti) must come before the verb (is). This is the normal order. The most common example of the inverted order of the subject and the verb is seen in questions such as: "Is graffiti ugly?" The English language often uses this kind of inversion to make a question, but this is not the only time that the normal order of the subject and the verb in a sentence is inverted.
In the ECPE grammar section there will be a few questions where you have to spot the correct order of the words. Sometimes an inversion is needed; sometimes not.

1 Questions and sentences that might look like questions

The ECPE grammar section might try to trick you with a sentence that might look like a question when it isn't.
They are bound to ask us _____.
  1. if has been cancelled the order
  2. why the order was cancelled
  3. why did we cancel the order
  4. the reason to be cancelled the order
We need "why" to complete this sentence but option c is wrong because this sentence is not a question (so we don't want the inverted verb-subject word order). The correct answer is b.
Don't be caught out by longer questions that have the inversion in an initial phrase such as: "Could you tell me..." "Would you mind..." etc. If there is an inversion at the beginning like this, there won't be another inversion in the main part of the sentence. For example:
Would you be so kind as to tell me where the money is? (Not "...where is the money")
And don't be caught out by sentences used to make enquiries that are not really questions.
"I wonder if you could tell me when the next train to Houston is due." (Not "...when is the next train to Houston due")

2 Inversions with "so", "neither" and "nor"

When "so", "neither" and "nor" are used to make short agreements they are followed by an inversion.
"I am not into hip hop."
"Neither am I."
(Or: "Nor am I.")
"I am fond of flamenco dancing."
"So am I."
Or they can be used in the following way (also including an inversion).
Jennifer buys only organic fruit and vegetables, and so does Hugh.
They don't mind the higher prices, and neither do we.
(Or: ...nor do we.)

3 Inversions after negative adverbials

There are some words and phrases that function as adverbials that sometimes need an inversion. Look at these two sentences.
Bob rarely speaks to himself.
Rarely does Bob speak to himself.
The adverb here is "rarely". If it comes after the subject, there is no inversion (as in the first sentence), but if it comes before the subject, we need an inversion. The word order is inverted and in the case of the sentence about Bob we use the auxilliary verb "does" in the same way we do in questions (although this isn't a question).
The sentence with the inversion sounds more formal or more literary, and sentences like this are less common in ordinary conversation.
Here are some examples with other phrases used in the same way.
Seldom does Bob get invited to parties. (seldom = rarely)
Never have we seen such a breathtaking view.
At no time did the prisoner look as if he might confess.
Not only is she a great dancer but she is also an amazing mathematician.
Not until she took up rock climbing did she overcome her fear of heights.
Under no circumstances* will prisoners be allowed to give interviews to the media.
Little** did she realize that her grandmother was really a wolf.

* This is used to describe rules for which there are no exceptions. The alternative without the inversion is: Prisoners will not be allowed to give interviews to the media under any circumstances.
** This means that the girl didn't realize at all that her grandmother was really a wolf.
N.B. Remember that no inversion is possible if the adverbial doesn't come before the subject. Compare the following sentences with the corresponding sentences above.
She is not only a great dancer but she is also an amazing mathematician.
It was not until Effie left Brooklyn that she realized how attached she had become to the place.
The following three are used to describe an event that happened immediately after another.
Hardly had he stepped outside when it started to rain.
Scarcely had he stepped outside when it started to rain.
No sooner had he stepped outside than it started to rain.
Note that the past perfect tense is used to describe the event that happened first.
The following sentences with "only" include inversions. Note that it is not always the first verb that is inverted.
Only after he arrived at the airport did he look for his passport.
Only if you look through this dark glass will you be able to see the spots on the sun.
We accepted the invitation. Only later did we suspect it might be a trap.
Only by threatening extreme physical violence was the teacher able to control the class.
Note that there is no inversion when "only" is used in the following way.
Only Fiona knew the answer to the question.

3 Conditionals with inversions

In conditional (hypothetical) sentences we can sometimes drop "if" and use an inversion.
Should you see Nigel, give him my regards.
Were I in your shoes, I would make a formal complaint.
Had I known it was her birthday, I would have bought her a gift.
Note that "should", "were" and "had" are the only verbs that can be inverted in this way. (And "were" is also used with he, she and it.)

4 Inversions with "as"

Elisabeth was too shy to dance, as was Gerald.
She decided to leave early, as did Gerald.
In these sentences "as" indicates the similarity between two things.

5 Inversions with "so" and "such"

So excited were they that they couldn't sit still.
Such was their excitement that they began to jump up and down.
Note that "so" is followed by an adjective and "such" can be replaced by "so great" (So great was their excitement that...).

6 Inversions after adjectives

A few very literary sentences begin with an adjective and include an inversion.
Blessed are the children who are still unaware of what the future holds.
Gone* are the days when I could have been happy.

* Here the past participle is used like an adjective.
However there is no inversion in the following sentence.
Strange as it may seem, we were sorry to leave in the end.
Test your ability to spot inversions in English with our online quiz.


Everything here above was taken from fullspate.net

RUN LOLA RUN < Watch it!!!

Have you watched RUN LOLA RUN?


I love this movie!

Reading a student's homeword, I remembered it,
because of a song I love... "I wish"
So, looking for the videoclip,
I found out the movie is online!!
(subtitles in English)


Basicly,

The film begins with Lola receiving a phone call from her distraught boyfriend, Manni.
He is a small-time criminal and has lost 100,000 marks belonging to his crime boss by accidentally leaving it on a train.
(Lola was supposed to pick him up, but her moped was stolen while she was buying cigarettes).
After the doors of the train closed, he saw a homeless man pick up the bag of money but
he was unable to get back onto the train before it left the station.
Upon not seeing any trace of his money or the homeless man at the next station,
Manni assumes the money is long gone. Manni has to get the money within 20 minutes
before his boss finds out, and plans to rob a nearby supermarket.
Lola urges him to wait and tells him she will sort out the money.
She decides to ask her father, who is a bank manager.
The main part of the film is divided in three "runs" (20min. each).
Each run starts from the same situation but develops differently and has a different outcome.
Each run contains various flash-forward sequences,
showing how the lives of the people that Lola bumps into develop after the encounter.
In each run, those people are affected in different ways.